The strength to stand firm, when they say you’re wrong.

img_0205Living in a world where everybody likes you and your choices is not ideal or realistic.  Here’s an old story about myself that I wanted to re-post, as it taught me a very valuable lesson.  Maybe someone else can learn from it.

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3 ways ‘haters’ can help you.


Jesus has haters.  From before he was born, all the way to now, his haters are all around us.  He reminds us that while living for him, we will experience this fate as well.  Seems like a shame, but there is value in understanding that not everyone is going to like you.  Read on for three specific things haters can do for you. Continue reading “3 ways ‘haters’ can help you.”

Thoughts on proper prayer.

IMG_4356Talking to God through prayer and meditation has many benefits.  As a leader, it’s paramount to our success that we remain vigilant in this effort.  When we falter in our daily communication with Him, we lose focus.  God gives us the proper way to pray in Matthew 6: 9-13.  The Lord’s Prayer is the perfect outline.  Here are three things about prayer that will lead to the proper utilization of this divine interaction.

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3 simple ways to discover your purpose.

IMG_0594Many of us get fooled into thinking that our purpose has to be “earth shattering”. We have often psyched ourselves out of finding our purpose, because we associate it with a major task.  Finding our purpose means that now, we have to work hard.  Some people do a lot of soul-searching, questions, countless nights, introspective observation and back-breaking labor to crack the surface of who they are and more importantly, where they are going.  It doesn’t have to be that deep or hard and I offer 3 ways to find our your purpose.

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Things “successful” people sometimes forget to tell you.

IMG_0578The simple truth is, you can’t have it, just because you want it.  You’ll hear a lot of people say, “you can have it, if you want it”.  If you believe it, you can achieve it. That’s why motivational speakers do so well because people that listen to them are searching for anything to latch onto.  Anything but the truth.

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Real leaders don’t make promises.

IMG_0559A promise is something that elicits a strong emotional response.  Your promise enables people to believe in you, only to have their hopes shattered when you fall short.  During the sermon on the mount, Jesus reminds us that we should not make promises at all, for any reason.  Simply because we have no idea if we will be able to keep them.

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