Who do you blame when stuff goes wrong? Put away the “blamethrower”

When you blame others for your problems, you give away the ability to fix those issues. You place the “power” over the situation in something or someone external to yourself. How much luck do you think you will have changing others, so that your situation improves? Learn to identify the root cause of the issue, WITHIN YOU. Most times, it lies within fear, anger or resentment. Clearly identifying the cause gives clarity to the solution. By readjusting your perspective, you can properly solve the problem. – bossinthemiddle.com